I’ve been writing here for over a year now and, while I love sharing, I want to share better. I want to make it more genuine and more useful. I love being a housewife, but I think that as a modern housewife, I can learn from other housewives and maybe I can share my successes and struggles in a way that is valuable to the greater housewife community.
Today, that starts.
I don’t want to make promises about what each day will hold and I don’t want to make promises that there will be a post every single day, even though that is my goal. But I do want to make a practice of sharing a lot of things about how I get through the day, week and month. So I will be sharing my planners, my meal plans, grocery hauls, motivational quotes, my renewed health goal and so much more.
So, here we go….
“You have spent enough time at war with yourself.”
I can definitely relate to this. It makes me think of all of the negative things I think about myself and my world. I’m generally a pretty happy person, but that does not make me immune to negative self-talk. And I imagine that, like me, your negative self-talk has a familiar rhythm. Every time I allow myself to get negative, I think about the same things…my weight and mistakes I have made.
Brene Brown said “Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love.” If I love myself, I need to stop the negative way to speak to myself about my weight and my mistakes. I need to own them and put them away.
Do you engage in negative self-talk? How do you get out of that spiral?
This Week’s Goals
Create and schedule posts for July 8-14 and July 15-21. *
Work on a new trick with Ellie
Read 2 books
Order Bathroom Flooring and Tile *
Sign up for Baptism Class
Start 30 Day Fitness Challenge *
Create blog posts for Travel Tips with Jennie for August
Work on South Dakota Plans
Schedule shopping day with Kathy
Plan Ben’s Birthday Party *
Have a good long weekend with Chris *
That is a lot. Especially with a holiday and Chris being home for 5 straight days between the holiday and working from home.
A couple of the goals are really fun! A few of them will only take 10 minutes. A couple of them are easy, but will take a significant amount of time. And one or two of them are just plain hard. The ones with the * are non-negotiables…they must happen this week.
When you are making your goals for the week, do you try to give yourself a mix of easy and hard goals?
Planner Time-Before the week starts
How are you celebrating the 4th of July? Do you have annual traditions or do you just go with the flow?
Happy July Friends!